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I am a mediator at heart, even though I have to dish and take abuse for a living as a litigator. I know exactly what is happening, and if you guys will defer to me, to my expertise, just for an hour or so, and not respond with names at CREAM, and let this slow down and get back to substance, you might be surprised that he will slow down too and not escalate.
What I saw was RIGHT AT THE POINT on this dialogue when he backed out and started to talk substance about his SD, in effect he did JUST WHAT JJ suggested, someone took a swing at him. AT THAT POINT, there was a chance to get this in order, but that left hook started the escalation again.
I happen to know what I am talking about, and if you review the thread you will see that there was a lull and the opportunity to see who he was. He is a man who might not be too trusting and is too quick to judge us as well. But swiping at him just as he is trying to submit a little won't help.
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