Story of my life….

[Speedbird-1]

Originally Posted by dmash

I’m going to be honest. If this woman is around my age, this would come across incredibly, incredibly creepy and probably get a TikTok made about it. Just being straightforward.

Different generations perhaps and what was once endearing is no longer the case. In 2022 (again speaking for women say 25-35, Paul described her as this bracket) if she declines once, even politely, then you should probably take the hint. This is a store worker who could entirely be putting on a facade and there is no actual connection. You have to entertain that possibility, some people are just genuinely great at their job and make people feel comfortable.

Just giving another perspective here as things change every decade and what was once acceptable or even incredibly normal is no longer the case. By all means shoot your shot once but to continue on at this day and age can be truly off putting to a lot of women. I say this from experience and again being in this age bracket. Most women this age will be up front whether they are interested or not, it’s not so much a ‘game’ like yesteryears. And again, the context is key here. If it was at a local gym or some ‘neutral’ location it’s different, we’re discussing at place where she gets PAID to be nice to individuals.

Originally Posted by superdog

was thinking the same.

Ahh, the faint hearted.