Final Wrist Shot

[superdog]

Not looking for sympathy. This happened months ago. I wanted to share at the time, but genuinely did not want the "condolences".

I wanted to share because it was a special moment for me. I have taken so many wrist shots with my dad throughout the years. This one was while he was in hospice. Of course, I only put it on him for the shot, as per his request. He was not regularly wearing it in the hospital.

That was the first night. We took him home the next day.

I got my love of watches from my dad. He did some work for Armitron when I was a kid. He used to bring some home for me from time to time.

He and I used to trade back and forth quite a bit as I got older. I bought him that DD2 years ago. He later "stole" my Explorer 2 while he was going through cancer treatment. That was about 6 years ago.

I do not lament his death. He was sick a long long time. I do however, celebrate his life and the time that I had with him. I love that we had watches to bond over.

As an aside this is why I bought the home in Fla, which I have made a quick mention or two about at times on here. I want to be close to my mother and I do not want her to be alone. I am back and forth quite a bit to NJ as I cannot uproot completely. But I did become a Florida resident, and I really do prefer it there. But I am going too far into the weeds now.

I just wanted to share what I think is a truly meaningful moment in any watch journey. And while I rarely get personal on the internet anymore, this was a moment of weakness and the old Seth has come out just a tiny bit.

[Bazil]

That’s very emotional Seth ….

[rmagoo57]

Sounds like your dad raised a fine son!

[rajurama]

I can relate, shared the same bond with my Dad. Cheers to our Legends!

[brandrea]

Thank you for sharing Seth, I truly know what you went through.

I lost my dad this past fall.

This was his watch. Not valuable in the monetary sense but priceless to me.

I hope your mom is doing ok. Mine has had a lot of adjusting to do as we all have.

Did not mean to highjack your thread in any way.





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[cdmorenot]

Thank you for this post, Seth. A memory that will last forever.

[MrGoat]

My man, you did pops and your momma proud!! Wishing you all continued wellness and prosperity!!


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[AzPaul]

It's always hard. All the best to you and your mom.

[HL65]

What a special memory my friend! My best to you and your family.

[BNA/LION]

You are a Good Man, Brother Seth! Your Dad really loved watches and that is something you will always remember. Bonds between parents and siblings are formed for life in may ways. I'm sure you have a lot of wonderful experience over the years to recall and cherish.

Take care of Mom and tell her you Love her Everyday! All the Best! Larry

[~JJ]

Seth, we’ve never talked, but I’ve always enjoyed your posts and remember when you bought the DD2 for you dad, just because you wanted to, and I thought what a great guy and I’m sure your dad did too.

[Easy E]

Great post.

[scarlet knight]

Great, memorable picture. Treasure your memories!
We are currently in NJ for my mother’s health emergency.
Our surviving parents in NJ are 100, 92 and 91.
Best wishes to your Mom, Seth.
We love Florida! She is in the right place.

[Cru Jones]

Much love to you and yours Seth. Thanks for sharing this personal and poignant reminder of what truly matters.

[chieftd]

Sorry for your loss

[RichM]

Thank you for sharing your story. You’ll treasure that time and photo for the rest of your life.

My condolences to you and your family.

[S’portEye]

Beautiful post. I lost my dad last year. Every time I put on his 16233 it puts a smile on my face.

[superdog]

Thanks everybody. Appreciate the nice comments.

[soldes]

This post reflects the true sense of: Never forget where you came from, and the folks that help you get there.
As a son, you represent everything a father whishes his child turns out to be, when he becomes a man. God bless him, and you too.

[GB-man]

I’m sorry for your loss brother. It’s probably not the right time to say it here but have to admit that VC looks made for you man.

I have my great grandfathers retirement pocket watch and my grandfathers retirement watch. Two of my most prized possessions.

[East Bay Rider]

This is what's important.

[mailman]

Sorry for your loss Seth. I’m happy you and your father shared the love of watches. It’s a great bond. The picture is something to cherish forever. Moving close to your mom so you can be there and help her, that’s priceless my friend

[Moondoggy]

That is passion. A wonderful bond.

[travisb]

Thank you for sharing this Seth.
Very emotional at any age.
Wishing all the best for you and your mom.

[1st amg]

Seth, feel for you my man. I know you two were close and he was a catalyst to where you ended up in business....he was your biggest fan I would imagine. I bet you miss his pat on your back moments. Its a tough tough adjustment.

[enjoythemusic]

( bro hug Seth )


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[rmlovett1]

That’s a great photo and sentiment! Sorry to hear your father passed, it’s a tough time! I know the feeling. Remembering his good times with you and celebrating his life is the way to go about it! I concentrate on that as well.

[Dan Pierce]

A poignant post, Seth. Glad you had time to share w/ your dad [& mom].

My dad is coming to the end of his life's journey soon but at 94 he continues teaching us. I'm forever grateful we've had the time to say what's needed to be said, even if those words were not really necessary because his life already confirmed his commitment to his family.
dP

[superdog]

Not to get too emotional here guys...but each and every one of your comments have been very meaningful to me.

I did not really mourn like I thought I would. My mother has been a bit of a mess (58 years married) and I think I have just been trying to be strong for her. As my father instructed. I have had my moments, but I think for the most part, I have just been pretty numb to it.

Then all the sudden, I had this urge to post the picture and tell the story.

Now, as I am reading your comments and seeing your pictures, I find myself getting emotional and tearing up.

I think this has been very healthy for me. And I am grateful. Thank you.


Funny little story to lighten the mood:

On one of his final lucid days, when it was just the two of us he says, "Seth, I have something really important that I need to talk to you about. I need you to ensure you take care of this for me".

I pull up my chair really close so that no one can overhear.

He continues, "I need you to ensure you never lose my phone number. It has been in the family for 60+ years, and I want it to continue on as long as possible".

I said, "pop, this is what you are concerned about right now"? And he absolutely was. I laughed a bit. But, of course, promised it would be so.

He and I both have 212 phone numbers that have indeed been in the family a long time. His longer than mine. But it is just funny what is important to us at the very end.

Thanks again everyone.

[DLRIDES]

Words escape me ……………



What a memory.