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joli160 · 25 February 2016, 02:58 AM

Your son is doing great, finding a job I like for youngsters. Reward him for this and motivate him even more by presenting the watch on his 21st birthday. To make it really special an inscription would be a nice gesture. (Contrary to general belief this can easily be reversed, 10 minute job)

vitalsignsrn · 25 February 2016, 02:59 AM

Graduation. :-)

kneedeep · 25 February 2016, 03:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by waitungh

Graduation.

One doesn't have to do anything to turn 21.

Yes, this

jedinite · 25 February 2016, 03:17 AM

Thanks guys for your opinions, still have to ponder a bit more but leaning towards graduation.

Ravager135 · 25 February 2016, 03:40 AM

Your perogative. I would err on graduation. Might provide a little extra incentive. What a perfect Rolex to start with. Lucky guy to have a dad like you.

jedinite · 25 February 2016, 03:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KevNev

I'd give it to him at graduation.

Are you getting yourself a replacement? Is that why you want to give it to him ASAP?

No not getting myself a replacement, although that would be a good excuse!

JJL · 25 February 2016, 04:43 AM

Wait for Graduation. That was the original deal. I think he will appreciate it more knowing that he earned it.

21 is just a birthday. He will probably just go out and get banged up a few times anyways, probably best he wasn't wearing it when he turns 21. Lol, good luck

dominic.warren · 25 February 2016, 05:13 AM

That is a great piece I would give it to him once he has the diploma in hand.

brucewayne1959 · 25 February 2016, 05:18 AM

I'd say graduation, but 21 isn't a bad deal either. I would say that if you think he's deserving now then go for it! Sounds like a good kid!

Copasetic · 25 February 2016, 07:44 AM

Graduation. It's a more important accomplishment than turning 21. He's a lucky kid either way.

AK797 · 25 February 2016, 10:19 AM

Graduation to Crown an achievement.

CRM114 · 25 February 2016, 10:49 AM

Graduation is something earned, an achievement probably deserving a special reward if you're inclined to give one.

For those not battling a disease or growing up in war/famine zone, turning 21 is nothing except being (supposedly) 3 years into adulthood. Not a big, special deal at all. Don't cultivate the Special Snowflake Syndrome.

The 3rd option would be to leave it to him when you die. The day we fall off the perch ranks up there near the top of special occasions any of us will have, plus, he'll learn the virtue of patience in the meantime.

broulstone · 25 February 2016, 11:12 AM

Give it to him on his 21st and tell him it is for birthday and graduation

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subtona · 25 February 2016, 11:16 AM

It's a great gift.
Only you can answer that question.

Ps that happens to be my personal favorite birthday

Ruud Van Driver · 25 February 2016, 11:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by waitungh

Graduation.

One doesn't have to do anything to turn 21.

This

jedinite · 27 February 2016, 02:46 AM

Nothing was promised or said, would be a total surprise for him if and when I give it to him. AM working on something now and will update.

rouxeny · 27 February 2016, 02:56 AM

I would say graduation.

To me, that's more of an achievement than turning 21.

albmich · 27 February 2016, 05:17 AM

As everyone said, that's a graduation gift. A case of beer for the 21st bday would be more appropriate than a Rolex.

arguetaoscar · 27 February 2016, 05:25 AM

Wait until his graduation, I think he will associate this great achievement with a great gift, my father gave me a GMT.

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imperio · 27 February 2016, 06:24 AM

Coming from someone who just turned 28 this month - I got $300 for my 21st birthday present (as opposed to the usual $50) and nothing upon graduating when I was 23. Now we didn't come from much and I worked and paid my way through college. I'm not ungrateful - my parents were always there to support me at every turn the best they could. However I was (and still am) envious of others who got a graduation gift. For most of my peers it was a grad trip, for some it was a car. To me, the message sent was "we're proud of you for working hard and coming this far". I never got that kind of recognition despite the fact I was a bit of a rebel growing up and mixed with the wrong crowd, finally saw the error of my ways and decided to turn my life round when I was 19. An aunt mentioned in passing a couple of years back my mother actually never expected me to make it to college and she'd have been content if I just managed to stay out of jail. It was probably a slip of the tongue; she tried to switch the subject almost immediately afterwards.

The 21st present while very gratefully received, did not mean much more than what I got for my other birthday. Like others have mentioned, it does not take much to live to 21 years of age in a first world country.

Long and short of it - a birthday present would probably be seen as a special treat, whereas a graduation present would send a message of recognition. I get watches for myself these days as a treat but it would not hold as dear a place in my heart as a recognition gift would, be it a Casio, Seiko or Rolex. You should consider what it would mean to your son rather than let your want to give him something very special take over. Bluntly - is giving this to him as a 21st feeding your ego in a way?

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Porter · 27 February 2016, 06:57 AM

Graduation! Then the watch will start new sentimental memories! That's great!

Yuri.Popov · 27 February 2016, 06:59 AM

It will be an unforgettable birthday!

Go for it!!

GradyPhilpott · 27 February 2016, 07:23 AM

You know your son better than we do.

Give it to him when you think he deserves it.

I do agree that graduation is more of an accomplishment than turning 21, though.

As Hans Wilsdorf said, "A crown for every achievement."

jedinite · 27 February 2016, 11:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by imperio

Coming from someone who just turned 28 this month - I got $300 for my 21st birthday present (as opposed to the usual $50) and nothing upon graduating when I was 23. Now we didn't come from much and I worked and paid my way through college. I'm not ungrateful - my parents were always there to support me at every turn the best they could. However I was (and still am) envious of others who got a graduation gift. For most of my peers it was a grad trip, for some it was a car. To me, the message sent was "we're proud of you for working hard and coming this far". I never got that kind of recognition despite the fact I was a bit of a rebel growing up and mixed with the wrong crowd, finally saw the error of my ways and decided to turn my life round when I was 19. An aunt mentioned in passing a couple of years back my mother actually never expected me to make it to college and she'd have been content if I just managed to stay out of jail. It was probably a slip of the tongue; she tried to switch the subject almost immediately afterwards.

The 21st present while very gratefully received, did not mean much more than what I got for my other birthday. Like others have mentioned, it does not take much to live to 21 years of age in a first world country.

Long and short of it - a birthday present would probably be seen as a special treat, whereas a graduation present would send a message of recognition. I get watches for myself these days as a treat but it would not hold as dear a place in my heart as a recognition gift would, be it a Casio, Seiko or Rolex. You should consider what it would mean to your son rather than let your want to give him something very special take over. Bluntly - is giving this to him as a 21st feeding your ego in a way?

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I asked forum members for an opinion and most were nice enough to give me their constructive thoughts, except for you. So you think you had a hard life ? Who are you to judge me? So boo hooo you got only $300 for you graduation so what I got nothing. I am a parent and I thinking of doing something nice for my kid. If you don't like it move on don't spout some sanctimonious BS to me about you having to buy your own watches....everyone buys their own watches here. The only one with an ego and a freaking big chip on his shoulder is you. If you are envious of people getting watches as graduation gifts, too freaking bad...nuff said

brandrea · 28 February 2016, 12:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GradyPhilpott

You know your son better than we do.

Give it to him when you think he deserves it.

I do agree that graduation is more of an accomplishment than turning 21, though.

As Hans Wilsdorf said, "A crown for every achievement."

NeuroBeaker · 28 February 2016, 12:41 AM

Graduation.

When someone inevitably asks about the watch, not only do you have an interesting timepiece to discuss, but the conversation leads on to his accomplishments.

Trust me on this. It's great to say one's Rolex commemorates an outstanding personal achievement.

All the best,
Andrew.

stil · 28 February 2016, 01:05 AM

Graduation is an accomplishment...21 just happens.

imperio · 28 February 2016, 01:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jedinite

I asked forum members for an opinion and most were nice enough to give me their constructive thoughts, except for you. So you think you had a hard life ? Who are you to judge me? So boo hooo you got only $300 for you graduation so what I got nothing. I am a parent and I thinking of doing something nice for my kid. If you don't like it move on don't spout some sanctimonious BS to me about you having to buy your own watches....everyone buys their own watches here. The only one with an ego and a freaking big chip on his shoulder is you. If you are envious of people getting watches as graduation gifts, too freaking bad...nuff said

Sure didn't mean for it to come across this way. All the best with your decision.

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Explorertwo · 28 February 2016, 02:01 AM

Great move!
Bought the same watch, when my son was born. Plan to give it to him when i'm old and will be wearing it untill then.
Back to you. Save it untill graduation: he will have special memories whenever he looks at his beautifull watch!

Ticknaway · 28 February 2016, 11:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lash L

Drink a beer with him. Make him earn that Rolex.

I agree with this!!!

25 February 2016, 02:58 AM	#31
joli160 2024 SubLV41 Pledge Member Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: NL Watch: Yachtmaster Posts: 14,738	Your son is doing great, finding a job I like for youngsters. Reward him for this and motivate him even more by presenting the watch on his 21st birthday. To make it really special an inscription would be a nice gesture. (Contrary to general belief this can easily be reversed, 10 minute job) __________________ Day Date 18238, Yachtmaster 16622, Deepsea 116660, Submariner 116619, SkyD 326935, DJ 178271, DJ 69158, Yachtmaster 169622, GMT 116713LN, GMT 126711.

25 February 2016, 03:17 AM	#34
jedinite "TRF" Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Real Name: TC Location: GMT -8 Watch: SeaDweller Deepsea Posts: 582	Thanks guys for your opinions, still have to ponder a bit more but leaning towards graduation. __________________ Tudor Submariner 76100/Rolex TT Submariner Blue X/Victorinox AirBoss Mach 6/Longines Grande Vitesse/Rolex SeaDweller DeepSea V/ GShock GW-3000B/ Tudor Prince Date 74034/ Rolex ExII 42 WD/ Rolex Submariner 116610 LV/ Tudor Pelagos Blue

25 February 2016, 05:18 AM	#39
brucewayne1959 "TRF" Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Real Name: Rich Location: Tampa Watch: Tudor Black Bay Posts: 318	I'd say graduation, but 21 isn't a bad deal either. I would say that if you think he's deserving now then go for it! Sounds like a good kid! __________________ "The world breaks everyone, and afterward, many are strong at the broken places." Ernest Hemingway Talent is a chisel, but hard work and effort is the hammer. God puts the chisel in your hand but expects you to pick up the hammer and swing...

25 February 2016, 11:12 AM	#43
broulstone "TRF" Member Join Date: Mar 2014 Real Name: Bruce Location: Alexandria, VA Watch: EXP II, DJ,PP5066 Posts: 1,597	Give it to him on his 21st and tell him it is for birthday and graduation Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk __________________ Bruce, 16570 Explorer II, DJ 16234 DJ 16013, 6466, 1947 Rolex Oyster, JLC Grande Reverso 976, PP 5066, Ellipse, Omega Seamaster

25 February 2016, 11:16 AM	#44
subtona "TRF" Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Real Name: gus Location: East Coast Watch: APK & sometimes Y Posts: 26,550	It's a great gift. Only you can answer that question. Ps that happens to be my personal favorite birthday __________________

25 February 2016, 02:59 AM	#32
vitalsignsrn "TRF" Member Join Date: Jul 2013 Real Name: Judy Location: Ontario Watch: 116234 - 14060M Posts: 4,607	Graduation. :-)

25 February 2016, 03:40 AM	#35
Ravager135 "TRF" Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: New Jersey Posts: 4,222	Your perogative. I would err on graduation. Might provide a little extra incentive. What a perfect Rolex to start with. Lucky guy to have a dad like you.

25 February 2016, 04:43 AM	#37
JJL "TRF" Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: US Watch: 1680 Red & 16622 Posts: 2,449	Wait for Graduation. That was the original deal. I think he will appreciate it more knowing that he earned it. 21 is just a birthday. He will probably just go out and get banged up a few times anyways, probably best he wasn't wearing it when he turns 21. Lol, good luck

25 February 2016, 05:13 AM	#38
dominic.warren "TRF" Member Join Date: Jan 2014 Real Name: Someone Location: Somwhere Watch: Tudor LHD Posts: 1,001	That is a great piece I would give it to him once he has the diploma in hand.

25 February 2016, 07:44 AM	#40
Copasetic 2024 Pledge Member Join Date: Jul 2015 Real Name: Howie Location: Florida Watch: Varies Posts: 578	Graduation. It's a more important accomplishment than turning 21. He's a lucky kid either way.

25 February 2016, 10:19 AM	#41
AK797 2024 Pledge Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Real Name: Neil Location: UK Watch: ing ships roll in Posts: 59,368	Graduation to Crown an achievement.

25 February 2016, 10:49 AM	#42
CRM114 "TRF" Member Join Date: Sep 2015 Location: HK & USA Watch: GMTs,1803, 16610LV Posts: 2,001	Graduation is something earned, an achievement probably deserving a special reward if you're inclined to give one. For those not battling a disease or growing up in war/famine zone, turning 21 is nothing except being (supposedly) 3 years into adulthood. Not a big, special deal at all. Don't cultivate the Special Snowflake Syndrome. The 3rd option would be to leave it to him when you die. The day we fall off the perch ranks up there near the top of special occasions any of us will have, plus, he'll learn the virtue of patience in the meantime.

27 February 2016, 02:46 AM	#46
jedinite "TRF" Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Real Name: TC Location: GMT -8 Watch: SeaDweller Deepsea Posts: 582	Nothing was promised or said, would be a total surprise for him if and when I give it to him. AM working on something now and will update. __________________ Tudor Submariner 76100/Rolex TT Submariner Blue X/Victorinox AirBoss Mach 6/Longines Grande Vitesse/Rolex SeaDweller DeepSea V/ GShock GW-3000B/ Tudor Prince Date 74034/ Rolex ExII 42 WD/ Rolex Submariner 116610 LV/ Tudor Pelagos Blue

27 February 2016, 02:56 AM	#47
rouxeny "TRF" Member Join Date: Oct 2013 Real Name: Andrew Location: Maui Posts: 686	I would say graduation. To me, that's more of an achievement than turning 21.

27 February 2016, 05:17 AM	#48
albmich "TRF" Member Join Date: Aug 2015 Location: WI Watch: SD4k Posts: 1,333	As everyone said, that's a graduation gift. A case of beer for the 21st bday would be more appropriate than a Rolex.

27 February 2016, 05:25 AM	#49
arguetaoscar "TRF" Member Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 2,335	Wait until his graduation, I think he will associate this great achievement with a great gift, my father gave me a GMT. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

27 February 2016, 06:24 AM	#50
imperio "TRF" Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: San Francisco, CA Watch: this space Posts: 1,867	Should I? Coming from someone who just turned 28 this month - I got $300 for my 21st birthday present (as opposed to the usual $50) and nothing upon graduating when I was 23. Now we didn't come from much and I worked and paid my way through college. I'm not ungrateful - my parents were always there to support me at every turn the best they could. However I was (and still am) envious of others who got a graduation gift. For most of my peers it was a grad trip, for some it was a car. To me, the message sent was "we're proud of you for working hard and coming this far". I never got that kind of recognition despite the fact I was a bit of a rebel growing up and mixed with the wrong crowd, finally saw the error of my ways and decided to turn my life round when I was 19. An aunt mentioned in passing a couple of years back my mother actually never expected me to make it to college and she'd have been content if I just managed to stay out of jail. It was probably a slip of the tongue; she tried to switch the subject almost immediately afterwards. The 21st present while very gratefully received, did not mean much more than what I got for my other birthday. Like others have mentioned, it does not take much to live to 21 years of age in a first world country. Long and short of it - a birthday present would probably be seen as a special treat, whereas a graduation present would send a message of recognition. I get watches for myself these days as a treat but it would not hold as dear a place in my heart as a recognition gift would, be it a Casio, Seiko or Rolex. You should consider what it would mean to your son rather than let your want to give him something very special take over. Bluntly - is giving this to him as a 21st feeding your ego in a way? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk __________________

27 February 2016, 06:57 AM	#51
Porter "TRF" Member Join Date: Nov 2015 Real Name: Carlos Location: Eivissa Watch: Rolex, Tudor.... Posts: 1,635	Graduation! Then the watch will start new sentimental memories! That's great!

27 February 2016, 06:59 AM	#52
Yuri.Popov "TRF" Member Join Date: Jul 2015 Real Name: Yuri Location: New York Watch: Rolex Submariner C Posts: 1,224	It will be an unforgettable birthday! Go for it!!

27 February 2016, 07:23 AM	#53
GradyPhilpott 2024 SubLV41 Pledge Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: New Mexico Watch: Seiko #SRK050 Posts: 34,447	You know your son better than we do. Give it to him when you think he deserves it. I do agree that graduation is more of an accomplishment than turning 21, though. As Hans Wilsdorf said, "A crown for every achievement." __________________ JJ Inaugural TRF $50 Watch Challenge Winner

28 February 2016, 01:05 AM	#57
stil Member Join Date: Jul 2014 Real Name: not stil Location: USA Watch: Rolex n Omega Posts: 1,327	Graduation is an accomplishment...21 just happens.

28 February 2016, 02:01 AM	#59
Explorertwo "TRF" Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Real Name: Tom Location: Lowlands Watch: White 'n Black Posts: 641	Great move! Bought the same watch, when my son was born. Plan to give it to him when i'm old and will be wearing it untill then. Back to you. Save it untill graduation: he will have special memories whenever he looks at his beautifull watch!

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